Two weeks ago, I said that after a bunch of scheduled posts finished running, I'd have an announcement to make. Well, the scheduled posts are finished running and I guess I can share now that my initial plan was to stop this blog altogether and even take it down. I was
thisclose to doing it.
I am getting too busy to update it on a regular basis and haven't even been able to visit any blogs, which I feel plenty bad about. But then every time I would log on, read your comments and private e-mails, a part of me also felt that it would be a waste to take it down completely -- I have been working on it since 2006. I also spoke to J about it and asked for his opinion. He's a man I can always count on for rock solid and sound advice. He has never failed me before (afterall, that's one of the reasons why I'm marrying him, right? ;). He told me that even if I don't have time to blog nowadays, to keep Jemma's blog running for informational purposes and that who knows, maybe I'll have time to come back to it one day. I don't doubt that I'll eventually find time to do it again, but for some reason, I always felt it needed to be updated on a regular basis. I feel that's where the pressure comes in.
Then, I asked myself...what was the purpose of me starting this blog for Jemma? It was basically to document her life and to keep track of it. When I started it, it was for my own record more than anything else. The fact that I have gained so many friends from it is a bonus that I'm ever so grateful for all the time. One of the reasons why I haven't bothered to make a public Facebook page for Jemma is because it doesn't work well for record keeping purposes. Old posts get pushed down further and further and it's not even searchable. For that, I have stuck to a blog where I am able to control everything. In the end, I can make a book out of all these entries and it will sit on my bookshelf where I can read it over again and again. Thinking about it that way makes me want to continue blogging and it quickly eliminates any thoughts of taking it down.
So...it will stay up for now, BUT that doesn't mean I won't need a break from it. I cannot keep up with my treats and photography businesses + another in the making + wedding planning + my photography blog + Jemma's blog. At least not until after the wedding. It's simply getting too stressful and if I continue down this path, it won't be healthy.
Have I mentioned yet that I had been taking grooming classes? Yup, I'm crazy. I know because my lovely friends tell me so :) I'm proud to say that I've successfully completed the program. And since then, I have been grooming and practicing on a lot of dogs. A lot. That means I'm qualified to groom your dogs now! (I will do all breeds except terriers. Because I have an awesome good friend who can work miracles on terriers and all terriers should go to her.) This week, it was time for Jemma's groom and I finally remembered to take a pic of her right afterwards. It feels
so nice to be able to groom my own dog up on that table. I must admit that she's been the easiest on me so far, LOL. Of course, I tried to adorn her with as many accessories as possible after her appointment with me, ha.
Oh my DOG, bad news for me! My mom is now my groomer, too!!!
I've always wanted to be able to groom her myself because I see how stressed out she can get from being dropped off at the groomer's and for various reasons, I prefer not using mobile groomers. Not to mention I'm someone who finds it hard to truly trust people when it comes to my pets. I'm going to love being able to do this on my own! Anyway, this all has something to do with my "another [business] in the making" statement up above. Hint: I am "store shopping" now ;)
Therefore, I am taking a BIG break from Jemma's blog. I hope I've done a good enough job of persuading you, my readers, that I really need this break, lol. Instead of spending time writing updates, I'd rather be spending those extra 10 minutes giving personal attention time to Jemma and Tofu or taking them for an extra walk. However, you can expect 1-2 longer posts every month until around September when HOPEFULLY we can do more regular updates again. I also can't absolutely promise the 1-2 monthly posts, but I will try my best.
How to keep up with us in the meantime?
My Photography Blog
Flickr - Most of my photos have been friends only, but I'll make sure to make more future Jemma and Tofu pictures public.
Tofu's Instagram
My Twitter - Mainly photography business updates, but some personal ones tossed in the mix, too.
I'm ending this long post with some recent photos from my personal Instagram to prove that I somewhat have a life outside of work...sometimes.
Until next time!
Yours truly,
Kathy